Human

I hold on to my human experiences
underneath this thick skin of mine.

I breathe a quick sigh of relief as things get better just in the nick of time.

I'm restless, antsy, anxious, and downright confused.

I'm starting to identify myself as one of those ladies always singing the blues.

I'm hot, then cold;
Consider myself young, then old.

I'm a diamond in the rough with a heart of pure gold.

Ovevrall, I'm a woman with a story to be told!

#Better#Brighter#Blessed

Let's put this faith to the test!!!!!

I now ask for and open myself to receive.....
A clearer understanding of who I am and what I am to be!

I now ask for and open myself to receive......
Blessing upon blessing to prove the faith my God has in me!

I now ask for and open myself up to receive......
A brand new life full of possibilities to achieve.

I now ask for and open myself up to receive.......
Unconditional love from a man that ain't got no tricks up his sleeve.

I now ask for and open myself to receive.......
A permanent smile with no "oooo child" eating away at me!

I now ask for and open up myself to receive......
The Freedom to be free.

I now ask for and open myself to receive......
The ability to make good choices and make others believe.

I now now ask for and open myself to receive......
The guts to tell the Devil "no longer are you holding me, my God is molding ME!"

I now ask for and open myself to receive.....
The heart to speak what's on my mind so I don't lose no sleep!

I now ask for and open myself to receive.......
The chance to prove my enemies wrong cuz HE don't make no mistakes!

#writtentherapy#Better#Brighter#Blessed#clapfoyaself#bravo

Thoughts, Emotions

There are feelings I never want to end,
There are other feelings that I refuse to let in.
Things have got to change!

As we continie to grow and identify certain aspects of our lives it is important to tap into behavior patterns and ways of thinking that no longer work. Today I plan to change some things and loosen up a little. I will allow people and/or thoughts and feelings into my life and my mind that I have previously shunned or ignored for no specific reason. Since I ultimately control my thoughts.......it won't hurt anything!!!!

Happy New Year!!!!!
Be Better, Brighter, and Blessed

Defining Your Sexy

“I can make a scene that’s not supposed to be sexy, very sexy.  It’s a power you’re born with. It’s not a physical thing, it comes from inside.  It’s all in the eyes.” -Tara Reid

Song:  Beyonce “Dance for You”

What turns you on? Is ‘Your Sexy’ visual, mental, or a combination of the two? If you don’t know what turns you on, how can you communicate that to your partner? It’s best to know what you do and do NOT like in order to be satisfied 100% of the time. Take a walk with us on the seductive, sensual, appealing side for a moment in order to complete this exercise. We want you to set the scene for an intimate night. Toys, tools, etc. are an added bonus if you so desire. Since this is a fantasy exercise….feel free to imagine that you are creating this night to be shared with whomever you choose. The goal is to write down the things that get you in an intimate, cherished, and undeniably sexy mood. As you plan this night, what would you wear? What songs would make up your playlist and why would you choose those particular songs? What are some of the foods the two of you would eat? How about drinks? It’s been a while since I’ve felt sexy so as I come up with the criteria for the exercise I have a few thoughts of my own! How about fragrances? Sometimes fragrances can take you back to a time you will never forget. Do the two of you talk or simply enjoy your various moments in silence? Try to be as detailed as possible-leaving nothing to the imagination. HELL YEAH!!!!! Let’s do this!!!!!!!  It’s time to get our freak on ladies.  So for this playlist we are going to get adventurous and explore our most intimate thoughts.  What songs do you listen to when you want to get your freak on?  Don’t forget to be very detailed and descriptive when describing how you feel when you listen to them.  Next let the Romance begin.